Wednesday, February 27, 2008
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कुछ सवाल चोखेर बाली से...
अपने शौक के कारण कभी कभी ब्लॉग पर आ कर कुछ कुछ पढ़ लेता हूँ और अच्छा लगे तो कुछ कमेंट भी ज़रुर करता हूँ। काफ़ी दिनों से ब्लॉग का ताप मन कुछ गरम है। किस सज्जन ने स्त्रियों के सम्मान में कुछ गुस्ताखी की ( जोकि निहायत ही ग़लत बात है ) और कुछ स्त्रियों ने जंग का बिगुल बजा दिया और नाम दिया चोखेर बाली ! कुछ पुरूष भी इस मिशन में शरीक है। वैसे तो मैं ख़ुद इन सब की राय / सोच से काफ़ी इत्तिफाक रखता हूँ , मगर कहीं कहीं सोच में भी पड़ जाता हूँ। समझ ही नही आता क्या चल रहा है , उन्हें क्या कहना है या क्या साबित करना है। अगर सारी नही तो अधिकांश बातें बिल्कुल साफ-साफ है ( जो मुझे लगता है, उनका पता नही ) तो फिर वाद-विवाद कैसा ?बहुत सारे मुद्दे है इस वाद- के। चलो एक एक कर के थोडी थोडी बात करे।
१। स्त्री सम्मान: पता नही, हो सकता है ये मेरा भ्रम है , मगर मुझे लगता है स्त्री सम्मान में कहीं कोई कमी नही आई है जैसे जैसे स्त्री ऊँचाइयों को छूती जा रही है उसका मान सम्मान भी बढ़ रहा है अगर कुछ लोगो को यह बात हजम न हो तो कह सकते है पुरूष उनका सम्मान करने को विवश है फिर पता नही उन्हें क्यों लगता है उनका सम्मान खो रहा है कहीं कहीं यह बात ज़रूर है , मगर वो सिर्फ़ उन स्त्रियों के लिए है जो अपना सम्मान खोने को उतारू है, उदाहरण के लिए, हमारे पीजी में एक सुकन्या रहती है अक्सर रात हो घर से बाहर रहती है, और कम से कम ऑफिस के काम से तो नही और अब जिन सज्जन के साथ जा रही है उनका नम्बर तीसरा है वो सज्जन और मैडम दोनों ही सम्मान के पात्र है
२। रेप के कारण: सभी के अपने अपने तर्क है, कुछ पुरुषों ने तो स्त्री के कपड़ो को दोष देदिया एक छोटा सा सवाल है उन लोगो से, क्या कभी साड़ी या सलवार सूट पहने हुई लड़की का बलात्कार नही हुआ??? और जब ऐसा हुआ है तो कम से कम कपड़ो का तो कोई दोष इसमें नही है! इसके बहुत से कारण है जिनमे से कुछ है पुरूष की कुंठा और उसका विकृत दिमाग, समाज में ग़लत ढंग से फैलता आधुनिकरण का जाल और कुछेक स्त्रियों का थोड़ा औचापन
३। संपत्ति अधिकार: क़ानून का तो पता नही मगर आज कल शायद सब यही मानते ही की पिता की संपत्ति पर दोनों का बराबर अधिकार है काफ़ी लोगो का मत है की ये पिता की मरजी है कि किसको कितना दे मैं भी इसी बात को मानता हूँ
४: स्त्री की पुरूष पर निर्भरता: ये काफ़ी विवादास्पद है मैं तो सोचता हूँ स्त्री पुरूष दोनों एक दुसरे के पूरक है और कहे कि एक सिक्के के दो पहलू वैसे दोनों वक्तिगत रूप से आत्म निर्भर है किसी का न होना किसी को असहाय नही कर सकता कुछ पुरूष सोचते है कि वो एक स्त्री के सेर्वेसेरवा है वास्तव मे वो एक मिथ में है तथा कुछ स्त्रिया भी ऐसा ही सोच कर उनके मिथ को मजबूत करती है भगवान् ने जब सब को दो हाथ , दो पैर , दो आँख और सब के उपर एक दिमाग दिया है तो कोई किसी से कम कैसे मेरे रिश्ते कि एक दीदी है, और मेरे जीजाजी में शयद ऐसी कोई कमी नही है जो आप सोच नही सकते सारी कमियाँ एक साथ देखनी हो तो आप उनके दर्शन कर सकते है दीदी अपनी मेहनत से ख़ुद अच्छी गुजर कर लेती है मगर मैं आज तक नही समझा सबकी तमाम कोशिश के बाद भी वो उनके साथ रहने चली जाती है?
५। पतिता होना: मनीषा पांडेय जी ने बहुत सही कहा। इसका कोई मानक नही है किसी के हिसाब से हमारे पीजी कि सुकन्या पतिता हो सकती है और किसी के हिसाब से नही काफ़ी हद तक ये परी-स्थिओं पर भी निर्भर करता है कॉल सेंटर में काम करने वाली लड़की देर रात को ही घर आएगी और जो कि ठीक भी है इसका मतलब नही कि वो ग़लत है डे शिफ्ट की लड़की यदा कदा देर से आए चलता है मगर ये रोज हो तो सोचने वाली बात ज़रूर है, मगर यह भी ये नही कहता की वो पतिता है दूसरी तरफ़ अगर शराब पीना, सिगरेट पीना, सिटी बजाना आदि पतित होने की निशानी है वो येही काम करने वाले पुरूष भी पतित है इन सब काम करने वाले पुरूष को अगर हम पतित नही मानते तो ख़ुद ही सोचे गलती किस की है
अभी बहुत कुछ है कहने को, मगर अभी बस इतना ही ...
--- अमित २०/०२/२००८
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Saturday, October 13, 2007
आओ खेले , खेल !!!
हाँ तो देवियों और सज्जनो वोह खेल है " टांग खीचना "। अरे क्या हुआ, पसंदीदा खेल का नाम आते ही होंटों पर मुस्कान तैर गई। होता है, होता है। आप सभी जानते है , मगर बहुत से भाई मानते नही , इस खेल में हम एक तरफ और दुनिया एक तरफ , तव भी अपना तो कुछ बिगड़ना नही है। आओ चले , थोडा इस पर प्रकाश डाले।
बात कहॉ से शुरू करे ... अरे , हम तो ब्लोग पर है , तो चलो यही से श्री- गणेश करते है।
किसी भाई ने लिखा , हमे ना जाने क्या हुआ हम हिंदी भूल गये और इंग्लिश का दामन थाम लिया। उनका ये लिखना तो साब जुर्म हो गया। लोगो ने आव देखा ना ताव बस दनदना दन बरस पडे, जिसे किसी ने उनकी दुखती रग पर हाथ ना रख, पाव रख मसल दिया हो। किसी ने कहा अपनी भाषा विकास के लिए दुसरी भाषा की मदद लेना गलत नही। हमे पता हो है यह सही बात है , मगर हम माने क्यों ? अरे भई खेल भावना भी तो किसी चिड़िया का नाम है , और खेल का रोज अभ्यास भी तो ज़रूरी है।
किसी सज्जन ने आज ज़रा गुमनाम हो कर एक अच्छी बात कह दी और पता नही पढने वाले कहॉ कहॉ तक , क्या क्या सोच गये और आगे मैदान में "खीचने टांग"। कुछ सज्जनो को परेशानी थी की वो गुमनाम क्यों है , तो कुछ को लगा उनका लेख किसी की शान में गुस्ताखी कर रहा है। वैसे बडे मजे की बात है , जिस की शान में लिखा गया था , उन साब की कोई प्रतिक्रिया नही आई , मगर बाक़ी लोगो का कप्तान साब को खेल भावना के तहत समर्थन जारी था।
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
ब्लोग्स और कमेंट्स ...
Wednesday, September 5, 2007
Goa: It Rocks...
26 Aug’07: This was the day when we had to cover max of out trip so we started early. First we went to Anjana Beach. It is in a little depth and view from this beach was nice. We were there for 1 hour and then we move for Chopaara Fort. Though only one boundary wall is there at the name of Fort but the view of Arabian Sea is really awesome from this fort. We spent almost 2 hours in this fort doing photography.
We left for Panaji after the fort and did some shopping in the main market there and then we had our lunch there. After lunch our target was one of the famous churches of Goa. Name of the Church was “The Basilica of Bom Jesus”. Maximum work in this church was of wood and golden wood work was also there. By the time we finished with the church and were planning for our next place “Auguda Fort- Dil Chahata Hai Fort” the weather started playing with us and we could see some black clouds in the sky. Still by 5 PM we reached that fort and then came to know that visitors were allowed up to 5:30 PM so we were a little lucky that we had 30mins to visit the fort. Really it’s a nice place to visit and was looking like a fort. An old light house is also there that was used to show light / direction to the ships a long time back. While we were finishing the fort it started raining and we run towards our cab and started back to hotel. Luckily it stopped soon and we got some time to visit one more beach”Baaga Beach”. This beach was given first number of beaches we saw there since water was quite clean there and it was safe to have bath there. We reached hotel at 7:00 PM. It again started raining. We had our dinner at 9:00 and went for some shopping.
27 Aug’07: This was the day to return back to home. We started from our hotel at 10:00 AM and the reached to main city and had our break fast and again started for Hubli. Around 2:30 PM we reached at Karwaar Beach. The first expression after seeing this beach was WOW. This was the most beautiful beach we saw in our trip. Water was crystal clear and we could see some small islands from there. Some fishers were fishing that time and their style was a little different and finally they caught a number of fishes. We spent about 45 minutes there and headed towards Hubli. We reached Hubli around 6:00PM and had our dinner there. Then we reached at Railway station on time to catch our train there. By 7:00 AM we were back to Mysore.
Friday, August 17, 2007
Mission Gaganchukki ...

We had to drive for 3 hrs and around 1:30 PM we were there at the falls। Most of us were tired of driving that beautiful way and on top of this he day was a little hot and sunny, but it took only few seconds to that tiredness disappeared when we say the falls. It was as beautiful as we say it in few pics and we were expecting it to be. 
While leaving for the falls from Mysore none of us was in a mood to go inside the water and more over we were not sure that we would get a chance of it as well. But when we reached there and saw people, we could not stop our desire to have fun in water there and we all went in to the water fully dressed as we were not carrying any shorts, any other dress or anything to have pleasure of water. We had fun in water for long and when we came out of water, we realized we were there in water for almost 2 hrs.


Then we had some snacks we carried with us as we knew we would not get god stuff there to eat। Now our watches were showing almost 5:10 PM and we headed back for Mysore but no one was ready to 5take same way we came so we took another way which was a bit longer। This time we were on a right way as road was good and we came back to Mysore by 7:15 PM.
Really it was a nice trip we suddenly planned and had great fun there। I would suggest that one should go there at least once for sure.
Members of mission: Amit Sharma, Abhijeet, Raghunandan, Naveen, Dony, Suhesh, Ganesh, Sangram, Kiran Prasad, Mahesh, Venkat, Arun Goyal, Parshant, Lingaraju and Raju S.
Monday, July 23, 2007
Fun in Waynaad
Waynaad! No, this is not the time to go there। It’ll be raining heavily there these days and you will not enjoy anything, so it is not advisable going there these days. We always got this reply whenever we asked anybody about Waynaad. We all (Me, Abhijeet, Arun and Vaibhav) tired of listening to these words as day by day our desire to visit Waynaad was getting at its peak and we were almost crazy to go there, since it had been more than 3 months thinking for this trip॥ So, finally we decide to gamble and take a risk on our luck and planned a trip to Waynaad. I and Arun did lot of goggling and gathered information and finally I booked hotel and taxi for the day in one week advance so that we there would not be any last moment hassle.
And finally the day came when we had to move for one of our dream destinations “Waynaad” in Kerala, the state which is known as “GODs own country”! 21’st July2007 was that day.
According to plan we had to start early in the morning so that we could see the sunrise in Bandi Pur National Park, that is on the way from Mysore to Waynaad. So, I and Arun awaked up in the morning at 4:30AM and got ready by 5:30 AM and left for Abhijeet’s home to pick him up, but rest two were not ready. Taxi came as the given time 6.00AM sharp but we were late and started at 6:45AM. I don’t think there is any need to say how much excited we were. Since it was rainy season we were all packed. We were having water proof jackets, umbrellas, floaters and other stuff along with medicines for any emergency.
Our first stop was at Nanjangud to have our breakfast and then we headed towards our destination. On the way there was town / village “GUDELPET”, this was the location we took our first snap. Road was clean and we good see great sceneries and we did not leave this opportunity. Our photo freak Mr. Abhijeet is always ready for such things. We were enjoying the beauty of Kerala. It’s really very green and that greenery is too dense also. We reached Kalpetta Town almost at 11:00 AM; here we had already booked our room. We checked in to the Hotel and left for our first site scean” BANASURA DAM”. This is supposed to be the largest earth dam in India. This is almost 20 Km from Kalpetta town. The site which is open for people to visit is mainly for boating but in rainy season it is not allowed. We can do Steamer/ Motor boating here. The water here is very quiet and clear and surrounding of the DAM are really awesome. It was completely covered by clouds. After spending about an hour we left for the town to have out lunch.
We had out lunch in the hotel itself and it was our one of the worst food experiences and on top of that it was too expensive 500 bucks for 5 people for a tasteless food. Then we headed towards “POOKOTE LAKE”, which is about 13 KMS from the centre of the town. We were there at the lake about 3:15 PM and as soon as we reached it started raining. This was the first rain for us in Waynaad. Initially it was looking like that rain will take long to stop but luck was with us and it stopped in 30 minutes. Then we did boating in the lake. This lake is a fresh water lake nested above wooded hills, is the only one of its kind in Kerala. A fresh water aquarium with large variety of fish is an added attraction. It is one of Waynaad's top visitor draws. Really water in side was quite clear and it was not stinky at all. View of the forest surrounding the lake was good enough to draw visitors’ attention and make them to take a round of it which is about 2 KMS in circumference. This we can do on foot, a horse ride or horse cart. No doubt place is worth visiting.
By the time we were done with boating and the forest visit of Pookote lake, it was 4:45 by our watch and we planned to see “LAKDDI”, a view point of a valley in Waynaad. View of valley was amazing from there. Since the rain just stopped and Sun was trying to throw out some of this shine and sky was full of black and milky clouds. Rays of Sun was increasing the beauty of this scenery by trying to come out of the clouds.
This was supposed to be the last site for the day as rest of the places were about 25 KMS far at least so we thought to visit them next day. Suddenly something freaking stroked in my mind and I said to Vaibhav,” Should we try for Kozhikode?” and answer was ‘YES”. Yes, Kozhikode is a beach in city Calicut and that was about 55-60 KMS from there and almost 20KMS in Hill. I asked a guy whether we should go or not. He told me it was not advisable to drive in that hill in night in rainy season as it was too risky but there was not restriction from Administration. This is always more than enough for four enthusiastic guys and again we decided to take a risk. Earlier where we were not ready to go for 25 KMS (one side) inside the town itself we changed our mind to go for 60 KMS (one side) outside the town and that too in night in hills. In this one condition was that we had to come back to kalpetta town in night as he had already paid for our hotel and more over stay in Calicut may spoil our next day. Really a strange /daring and might be foolish decision, but that time we all were in a passion to see the beach and had a faith that God was helping us.
The first word we did not say, we almost shouted was”WOW”, three of us (I. Arun and Vaibhav) were seeing the beach for the first time. Though this beach was not that great but seeing the beach for the first time was really an amazing experience. It was all surrounded by black clouds and looking awesome. Soon it became dark and we could just enjoy the sea for 30 minutes or so. But it was unforgettable. We did a video shoot there as well. After having BHEL PURI there now it was time to move back at clock was showing 7:45PM. We started and were on the right track and suddenly slightly it started raining but it was ok. By the time we reached in Hills we realized the advice we got. It was completely dark if we saw at back side. We were not able to see anything hardly 15-20 feet’s from us and front side. My God it was completely misty. Because of clouds it was completely invisible again even 10 feet’s was not to make out. Our driver was driving very carefully and we were helping him to make out the way and finally he decided to drive on the white/ yellow line on the road and to follow some vehicle.
We reached Kalpetta about 10Pm and again one more struggle was waiting of us. In Kerala, getting vegetarian food is not easy and that too in a small town and after 10PM, big task! After searching about 5 hotels (only that many were open and were wrapping up). But this time food was good and then we reached hotel at 11PM.
Next day it was the Birthday of Vaibhav on 22’nd July, so earlier we had a plan to give him a surprise party but that plan washed out as we got too late in Calicut , so we changed it to give him birthday bumps. By the time the clock gave a beep of 12:00 He got busy on phone and we were waiting for him, and finally when he came we were dead tired and could just wish him his birthday.
Day-2-22’nd July2007:
We thought to move early but again we could leave hotel by 9.00AM and then we had our breakfast. It was boiled eggs and dosa. This time it was good so we had heavy breakfast and headed for our next place, “SOOCHIPARA WATERFALLS” that’s 22 KMs from the town. We had to climb / walk about 1.5 KMs to reach this falls. The way was a little dangerous and slippery. Finally we reach the fall and it was surrounded by some rocks. It was a milky fall and too much noisy. Water was crystal clear and cold. Again this fall was completely surrounded by back clods. The view was really awesome. When we were returning from fall it again started raining and we went in to a shade and had some team and we were wet a little.

On the way to Mysore in Bandi Pur , we got to see a group of elephants along with baby elephants. When they saw us they tried to hide themselves behind the trees. We took few snaps of them and started for our home. 8:15PM we were at our home in Mysore.
Really it was an amazing trip that can be never forgotten। It was supped to be a leisure trip that turned to a little thrilling / adventures trip. It was our luck and God grace even the thing that we going against us finally turned out to be beneficial for us. Thanks to God for such a wonderful trip.
Advise:
Though people have different opinions, but we would suggest visiting Waynaad in winter or at the start of rainy season and when end of rainy season. If you are going in this time better make all preparation in some time advance. Please make sure that you have someone who can understand Malayalam. All the places in Waynaad are scattered, so please plan the route before leaving.
All the best and have a nice trip to Waynaad!!! I am still dreaming...
Friday, July 20, 2007
Ranganthittu : Ben Stand of Mysore

We’ll go to bird sanctuary this weekend for sure no matter who comes or not, we were having this kind discussion for last month or so. But finally today 15July’07 we finally changed it in to reality. Five of us I, Arun, Vaibhav, Abhi and Subbu stated for Rangathittu by 2:20PM while we had a plan to start at 12.00 PM. But it hardly matters if some one is going to do/ get something.
Let's Go Abroad
I was watching TV after finishing my dinner and then Arun just entered the room and said,” Breaking News!” (This is a kind of favorite dialog of ours.). Without spending any further moment he said, “Ambeli got engaged”. You must be thinking this is normal news not a big thing. Yes, I agree with it. Then he said,” She is going to US as her fiancé is in US”. Again it’s not a big deal but not too small too. I know this is not a big deal in current scenario especially if you are an IT professional and usually none of us pays any attention to such news. I don’t know why I took it a little seriously and started thinking on it.
In spite of putting my all efforts to find out some reasons or to make out some conclusions I feel helpless…
Visit to St. Philomena's Church


At 12:00 p.m. our door ball rang and Pinky was there and she was ready to go for church. Before starting she asked for candle and as obvious two of us were not having candles, than she told us to get it from there only. We kicked our bikes and we started for the church. The Church is located about 3 kilometers from the city center. The ride to church is of almost 20 minutes from our home in Vijay Nagar. The way was a little bit full of traffic.
Being a Hindu I go to temple and few of the times I have been to Jain temples and to Gurudwara but this was the first time I went to any Church। In all other places we need to take our shoes off but in church its not like that so it was a slight uncomfortable feeling but I could manage it any how. In side the church first of all we lighted our candles and then we set on bench and prayed. As I believe there is no as such standard posture to pray, but the feelings should be pure, so Pinky did her prayers in her catholic style while I and Arun did it in our style. Then we went to basement of the church where a statue of St. Philomena.
The church is really beautiful. The St. Philomena's church is a miniature replica of the Cologne cathedral in Italy. Built in the early 1930’s in the Gothic style, it is the tallest cathedral in India. Colorful stained glass panels depict the birth, the last supper, the Crucifixion, Resurrection and Ascension of Jesus Christ. Light filtering in through these panels imparts an ethereal ambience to the inside of the church. The catacomb houses the statue and relics of the 3rd century saint Philomena. Twin spires rise up about 175 feets to the skies and can be seen for miles around.The main thing I liked about it was the clan ness. In spite people were wearing their shoes in side the church was quite clean and second thing that attracted me was the silence there. Though much people were not there still I can say even in crowed it should be quite peaceful place and people should get relax and peace inside the church.Visiting hours are from 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. and from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m... I heard not to miss to see the illuminated church in the evenings but as of now we could not see it. No doubt I enjoyed my visit to the church and it was a good experience too. Soon I will try to visit in evening time.
Chamundi-Nanjangud Visit




Next day according to our plan we met at the Petrol Pump near Panchvati circle. Arun was with me and Abhi was waiting for us there. Ashok bhai reached there just after our arrival. So, we all started around 7:10 AM for our first destination Chamundi Temple. This temple is more than 2000 yrs old. Chamundi Hill overlooks Mysore and is a popular tourist and pilgrimage centre, which is topped by the huge Chamundi temple. The stairway is guarded by the famous 5m high Nandi (Siva's bull) carved out of solid rock. This Temple is dedicated to Goddess Chamundeswari or Durga. Chamundeswari is the fierce form of Shakti who vanquished the demon Mahishasura. Apart from this the view of the city from the top is really amazing and we can see entire city from the top of the hill.
One unknown fact about this temple is : Dodda Devaraja Wodeyar, who ruled from 1659 to 1673, is said to have built the steps in 1583 for the convenience of pilgrims. He is also attributed to have constructed 63 houses at the foot of the hills and called it Devarajapura and donated it to Brahmins taking care of the temples. Besides using the steps, the Maharajas also rode on horseback to the temple. However, there was a separate flight of equestrian steps for the purpose. Very few know about the equestrian pathway today. The road was built in 1916 .From there we went to visit Nandi Bull, I have already described about it with temple. After spending some time there we left for Nanjangud about 9:15 AM. It was about 25 Km from there. It is on the Ooty road from Mysore.
Nanjangud, a holy place, described as Garalapuri, is famous because of the huge Nanjundeswara or Srikanteswara temple. It is believed that sage Gauthama stayed here for some times and installed a Linga, the idol form of Shiva. Nanjangud is also known as 'Dakshina Kashi' or Varanasi of the South.
The notable temple and place of pilgrimage at Nanjangud is the Nanjundeswara temple, one of the huge temples of Karnataka. It has grown in the course of 1,000 years, beginning from the Ganga times till the 19th century. The spacious temple has minor shrines of Narayana with consorts, Chandikeswara, Parvathi, Natya Ganapathi and others. There are many cells with Lingas enshrined in them. There are 122 images in the vast prakara or enclosure. There is a vast pillared mantapa inside. The temple has many bronzes Uthsava (procession) idols and a good number of vahanas (carriages) used on different festivals.
A major event in the pilgrim town is the Rathotsava or the car festival of Nanjundeswara. Besides the 'big Jathra' (big car festival), a 'Chikka Jathra' (small car festival) is also organized every year during two auspicious days. Hundreds of pilgrims are attracted for the two Jathras (festivals). Besides cultural programmers and illumination of the temple, a colorful floating festival (The ppotsava) is also conducted during the celebrations.
A major event in the pilgrim town is the Rathotsava or the car festival of Nanjundeswara. Besides the 'big Jathra' (big car festival), a 'chikka Jathra' (small car festival) is also organized every year during two auspicious days. Hundreds of pilgrims are attracted for the two Jathras (festivals). Besides cultural programmers and illumination of the temple, a colorful floating festival (The ppotsava) is also conducted during the celebrations.
Another important centre in Nanjangud is the Raghavendra Math, situated on the road to the right of the Nanjundeswara temple. It was founded by the close of 15th century and great gurus or heads like Sudheendra Thirtha and RaghavendraThirtha headed this institution. It has a fine collection of Sanskrit manuscripts and copper plates.One strange thing that I noticed in that temple was that it was having a number of statues but maximum of them were in a group of three. Second impressing or strange thing was number of Shiv Lings. I never saw that much number of Shiv Lings before. Really it was amazing visitng there.Finally about 11:15 AM we left the temple and had out breakfast there. Food was good there in the restaurant. After food we started back for home and we reached home at 1 PM. Abhi went with Ashok Bhai to his home and me and Arun came back to our home. Really it was a fun to be there. We enjoyed the trip. I wish we will get lots of such small and good trips.
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